I'm happily married but also in love with someone else
My husband could call and asked why I hadn't come home after school and I could proudly say, "James doesn't understand what a lecture taught today so I'm taking him through it." He had no problem with it as far as it was James. "You won't try to kiss me again and you won't take me home again when we close from lectures. Going forward, the two of us won't be alone in any place or whatsoever. You won't call me unless it's a life and death issue. No more lunch together." We said a whole lot of things but the barrier we sort to create soon caved in on us. It's been two years already since we left school.